whateveriwant

easy to get

pawangopinyonlang:

masasabi mo bang easy to get ang isang babae kung saglit lang siya niligawan or maybe hindi pa niligawan pero naging sila nung lalaki?


  • tingin ko ay hindi.
  • walang babae ang easy to get. may pagkakataon kase na yung nanligaw sa kanila or yung nagpakita ng affection sa kanya ay mahal na nia at hinintay nia lang ung oras na magtapat sa kanya yung guy.

may 13, 2012

andami na nangyare. haha. anyways, 3 months and 6 days na kame. akalain mo, ang bilis lang? haha. hindi ko naman talaga inaasahan na SIYA ang magiging BOYFRIEND ko. FIRST BF ko lang naman. like, what the hell is going on?! i never never never never ever thought this could happen. parang ako nga hindi makapaniwala pa hanggang ngayon. tinatanong ko pa minsan talga sarili ko kung kame ba talaga. para kaseng joke eh. haha. nakakatawa dahil sa tagal tagal naming naglandian. halos isang taon din eh magiging kame! tae lang po! haha. nung mga unang week. parang tinamad din ako. parang ayoko pa? parang mas gusto ko pang ung landian portion lang? ayaw ko ng commitment, ganun. parang nagsawa agad ako nung mga 1st week haha. ansama ko lang. parang katuwaan lang kase. parang joke lang talga. pero waaaaaaaaag kaa! 3months na and counting pa yan haha. nakakaloko din eh. :3 pontongo long po! 

Yung boyfriend na:

missprogrammer:

  • Malandi, pero ikaw lang nilalandi.
  • I-huhug ka at i-kikiss sa harap ng friends niya.
  • Yung proud siya kasi KAYO.
  • Yung marunong mag-alaga.
  • Yung marunong maglambing.
  • Yung marunong magselos.
  • Yung marunong maghintay.
  • Yung tanggap ka kahit ano ka pa.
  • Yung hindi niya kayang mawala ka.
  • Yung alam mong ikaw lang.
  • Yung may tiwala siya sa’yo.
  • Yung hindi ka i-gigive up, kahit anong mangyari.

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Sarap magkaroon ng boyfriend na ganyan noh?

: How to make your relationship work.

liamanjellah:

Understand that every relationship is different.

  • Don’t compare your relationship to anyone else. Not your parent’s, not your friend’s, not your co worker’s, not any other family member’s, not that couple’s relationship that seems perfect all the time, not anyone’s, not previous…

Work on your relationship every single day.

  • Do your part to contribute towards the relationship and keep it going and moving along. Maintain the relationship in every way possible. Work on strengthening your relationship, enriching it, in every way possible, on all levels possible, and in all areas possible (emotional, verbal, psychological, physical, etc.).
  •  Learn that punishing your partner won’t work. It may make you feel better to give him a hard time, but it will actually make him dig his heels in more. A better tactic is to reward the things you like and ignore what you don’t like.
  • Make him appreciate you. Don’t wait for a spontaneous compliment, but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement.
  • You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.
  • Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him, but don’t cling, as that can make your partner feel trapped.

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Remember, relationships are a two-way street, there should be two people involved. So you could do everything you possibly could do to make it work, but if the other person isn’t putting in their very best effort (or at least some effort at all) then it won’t work out. You both have to actively participate in the relationship and keep it positive to make it the healthiest and best that it can be.


(Source: missprogrammer, via missprogrammer)